A GIRL I REALLY LIKE BUT SCARED TO ASK OUT!! HELP!!!
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A GIRL I REALLY LIKE BUT SCARED TO ASK OUT!! HELP!!!
Hi there. HELP!!! I'm James (Comamandoscarsking) There is this girl i really like. i've known her for years and made a relationship with her. i really want to ask her out BUT i'm afraid she will say NO!!!! Plz help ANYONE
Whenever i see her i'm like this HELP ME (-SOB-)
She is very pretty and witty.
HELP!! For a quick help use the poll
Whenever i see her i'm like this HELP ME (-SOB-)
She is very pretty and witty.
HELP!! For a quick help use the poll
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One For All And All For Lunch
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James
One For All And All For Lunch
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James
Funny thing to ask in a forum for dating advice, don't you think?
I am only... well... that's a first.
Most people will usually offer bad advice, concentrating on their own experiences, good or bad. The best thing to really say to someone like you is to... just do it, or you'll always wonder about what would have happened if you didn't do it.
You have to ask yourself: "Do I only like her or do I really like her?".
That particular step going from friend to boyfriend, it is a biggy.
Perhaps she already sees you only as a friend. Perhaps not.
At least by asking her out, you'll know. If in the end, you do have feelings for her and she doesn't, then you should accept her still as a friend.
Cheers and good luck,
Iakovos:)
PS. This is a DIY post. All side-effects by following this advice is on YOUR head, not mine
I am only... well... that's a first.
Most people will usually offer bad advice, concentrating on their own experiences, good or bad. The best thing to really say to someone like you is to... just do it, or you'll always wonder about what would have happened if you didn't do it.
You have to ask yourself: "Do I only like her or do I really like her?".
That particular step going from friend to boyfriend, it is a biggy.
Perhaps she already sees you only as a friend. Perhaps not.
At least by asking her out, you'll know. If in the end, you do have feelings for her and she doesn't, then you should accept her still as a friend.
Cheers and good luck,
Iakovos:)
PS. This is a DIY post. All side-effects by following this advice is on YOUR head, not mine
"Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once
in a while, or the light won't come."
ISAAC ASIMOV
in a while, or the light won't come."
ISAAC ASIMOV
commandoscarsking > been there, NOT done that. I've been having a similar situation for the past 2 years and it doesn't want to back down. all I can say, is well.. you're not alone. there's a good Coldplay song with lyrics like 'if you never try you'll never know' which is so true, but hard to follow anyway, I just hope that you can find the strength to do this. it's better to know than wonder for the rest of the life.
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GUESS WHAT!!!
I asked her out and
OMG
she said yes
Anyway i'm trying out this game called Prisoner Of War.
Its o.k, though its more of an adventure with a storyline rather than a simulator...
I'm Bumbling on..........
goodbye thanx 4 the advice
I asked her out and
OMG
she said yes
Anyway i'm trying out this game called Prisoner Of War.
Its o.k, though its more of an adventure with a storyline rather than a simulator...
I'm Bumbling on..........
goodbye thanx 4 the advice
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One For All And All For Lunch
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U
James
One For All And All For Lunch
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U
James
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Excellent.comamandoscarsking wrote:GUESS WHAT!!!
I asked her out and
OMG
she said yes
Anyway i'm trying out this game called Prisoner Of War.
Its o.k, though its more of an adventure with a storyline rather than a simulator...
I'm Bumbling on..........
goodbye thanx 4 the advice
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